Monday, March 19, 2007

meaning of friendship

It all started when a personal message on MSN was being misinterpreted and somebody got hurt with the content of it and called me with inappropiate names (wouldnt want to elaborate further on that). Anyway, I got ticked off with this guy's comments and told his girlfriend 'bout this and she was like, 'so what?'
As a friend of course I felt hurt. For god's sake, I've been her friend before they were a couple. And for a friend to say 'so what?' after what the boyfriend said, well, it's just not right. I was just being honest 'bout them but I guess sometimes honesty is NOT the best policy.....I know from my actions it showed that I was being very unsupportive of them but what was I supposed to do? Say the opposite of things?? That's just not me.
But from this incident, I learned that an unsupportive friend is no use in life. I learned from my mistakes. Now, I would support her no matter what she's doing in her life because if that's how she wants to lead her life...so be it. If she's happy then I'm happy too. But everything is cleared up between us already so I guess everything should be forgotten and at the same time should not be repeated.....

Thanks to my friends who stayed by me when I needed them the most and to a really sweet girl who told me not to blow things out of proportion instead put it into its perspectives. You girls know who you are so yeah...thanks again. And to the couple behind this story...I'm sorry too for whatever I've done and said that made you guys uncomfortable.

*names are not to be revealed due to their privacies...
P/S to MSN: when it's a personal message, it's supposed to be personal and not to be seen by your contacts. jeez

3 comments:

Lollipop said...

yeaahh. kinda agree wit d P/s.

mysterio4eva said...

all i can say to that so-called friend of yours is that she is a self-centred,lost girl. i guess love make you an even more stupid girl than you already are.that's really sad ;(

nik zafirah said...

wow...mysterio..no need to be harsh there...love can make u a bit lost sometimes but sometimes somethings need to be learnt thru experiences....

all she and i did was we made a mistake tat had an affect on our friendship but i wud say it was a gud one cause it brought me closer to her after the incident....

it's ok to make mistakes once in awhile...